var quote=new Array() //change the quotes if desired. Add/ delete additional quotes as desired. quote[0]='The improvement of the child\'s behaviour is in direct correlation to the improvement of the parents.' quote[1]='We waste a child\'s resources and strength when we do things for him/her that he/she can do for himself/herself.' quote[2]='A child only behaves badly because he doubts his ability to behave well.' quote[3]='Even when a child knows he/she is doing wrong, this does not prevent him/her from doing so.' quote[4]='There are no bad children, only discouraged children.' quote[5]='We often have an unrecognized prejudice against people who are smaller and/or weaker than us.' quote[6]='Our own emotional response to a child\'s misbehaviour is directly in line with the child\'s often covert intentions.' quote[7]='Love is not an emotion. It is a relationship.' quote[8]='Human relationship is an agreement.' quote[9]='In our culture, age may be seen as an indication of superiority or inferiority when, in fact, its only claim is to equality.' quote[10]='In an autocratic culture, mistakes mean defiance.' quote[11]='Permissiveness ignores the human desire for order.' quote[12]='Dependency is a form of tyranny.' quote[13]='It always takes two people to fight, but only one to end a relationship.' quote[14]='Paradox is a part of life. Ignore it, at your own peril.' quote[15]='The essence of romantic love is transcendence, but, it is not the sole factor.' quote[16]='Sin or feel guilty. Don\'t do both, it takes too much energy.' quote[17]='Striving for superiority leads to power struggles.' quote[18]='Love is an action word.' quote[19]='Love is no absence of power it\'s the reconciliation of power.' quote[20]='The opposite of love is not hatred. The opposite of love is fear.' quote[21]='Conflict is, in part, defined by the willingness of two partners, in love, to have a meaningful argument.' quote[22]='Struggling for power in a love relationship is like struggling to catch your breath while still being under water.' quote[23]='On average, people who are addicted to crack cocaine die 14 years sooner than the average person.' quote[24]='Alcoholism is incurable, but it is manageable.' quote[25]='The first step in solving a problem is recognizing that it exists.' quote[26]='To effectively solve problems, one must first explore all the available alternatives.' quote[27]='Trust: warmth helps; being genuine is much more effective.' quote[28]='A phobia can also be a sideshow, thereby driving attention away from the actual problem.' quote[29]='Rationalization is using logic to deceive oneself.' quote[30]='Suffering disproves nobility.' quote[31]='Guile is feeling bad about not having met good intentions you never had.' quote[32]='A fear of leaving one\'s house indicates the belief "nothing ventured, nothing lost".' quote[33]='To be strong, impervious, and brave is a cultural ideal - in the military culture.' quote[34]='A victim is a martyr without a cause. Martyrs are victims with causes.' var whichquote=Math.floor(Math.random()*(quote.length)) document.write(quote[whichquote])